The Many LIES on

July 14, 2020

Kory & Allison Read do not know me, never did. We are not family, nor friends. They were tenants whom were EVICTED, and this is their REVENGE for this eviction, A Smear Campaign

September 10, 2020

I will leave you with a thought for the next few weeks until I return to posting.

Kory & Allison Read spend so much time talking about building procedures, writing like they believe they are entitled to have a say in them.

Why did Kory & Allison Read feel comfortable doing that, especially as they are only renting and really had no say in the decison anyway?

Why is it that Kory & Allison Read feel comfortable with stating that the staff and owners take a paid parking spot away from a tenant, just because they don’t have a car there, just for them who wanted it free? If you are paying for a parking spot, it can’t be arbitrarily taken for someone else. That’s the point if renting a space, it is yours whether you have a car or not.

I will never advertise that I have a car, or 2, even 3. It’s no ones business.

All the building procedures Kory & Allison write about in such a condescending, and detailed, manner, are none of their business.

Don’t you just love how entitled they sound with their content? Expecting owners to take a paid spot away from another tenant just so that they could have it, for free no less, even though there is no free parking here?

Writing like its a crime I had 2 cars parked here, when it reality it’s none of their business.

They write like they have a say over BBQ in the building, when it is none of their business.

How entitled they are in all their content. Poor Kory & Allison Read, not getting special treatment that they want and expect, all because they say so.

Kory & Allison Read write in such a entitled way, you would think that every building procedure was made up just to “inconvenience” them, not for any other purpose.

Kory & Allison Read write their content like my sole purpose in life is to cause “inconvenience” to them. How entitled is that?

That is how entitled Kory Read believes they are, that all building procedures are in place just to cause “inconvenience” to them. They feel that they should not have to follow the rules like every one else.

Their content, and the way it is written, tries to imply that everything said and done was personal, when it is business.

The Poster above is very apt for this domain in my name, isn’t it?

Kory Read is trying too hard to show he is an expert on my life and how I should live it in the content on this domain.

Not only do he spend so much time trying to convince I had a job title I did not, so he can be right about something, he also tries to tell me who I should associate with online.

Why should I care about Kory Read’s personal speculations on other people when his speculations on my life is so wrong? Talk about GOSSIP!

Tell me, Kory Read, why do you care who I associate with online?

You still didn’t answer my question, who made you judge, jury, and executioner of myself and others? Try not to deflect it at someone else… 🙂

I did manage to read most of this site the past few days and I must say, Kory & Allison Read have a wild imagination! How they can take something I wrote and twist it with their assumptions is really crazy. I am blown away by the detail they go into. It makes seeing “administrator” at the top all the more absurd, as the writer of such content to hide away.

Does anyone really wonder why I went off the rails for so long, once you see the garbage they write about me online? I am only human after all.

Seeing such nasty bullying words online about your character can be traumatizing. Kory Read don’t know me, and he can spend as many pages as he wants trying to convince people otherwise, it still won’t work.

Of course, Kory & Allison Read don’t see any of that, they are cruel human beings and have no clue what their actions do to the person they write about. If you do manage to read any of their crap, put your name where mine is and you will get an idea of what I go through at the hands of these people.

Kory & Allison Read are not doctors so for them to spend so much time trying to convince people I had no mental health issues is just another way to try and discredit me and take away any of their own blame for the state I got into mentally.

Kory & Allison Read refuse to acknowledge that their actions of posting such websites online with such nasty content can cause severe mental health issues for the person being smeared. They refuse to take any responsibility for what their content online does to anyone. Not to mention the garbage I got from Human Rights process!

Which is why they refuse to put their names on these sites, as they know what they are doing is WRONG and deceitful.

Yep, I am now going to call out Kory & Allison Read!

I DARE Kory & Allison Read to put their names on these sites!! Put your name on there, OWN your WRITTEN words about other people.

I DARE Kory & Allison Read to make it possible for comments on their sites and for people to contact them. Give people a way for them to contact you about your garbage online.

They will never do that, as they are scared.

Kory & Allison Read are total hypocrites! They spend so much time on their websites going on about other peoples accountability, yet refuse to accept their own, the main being ownership of these sites!

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BBQ’s… I am sorry this topic is such a waste as Kory Read proves with this page what an idiot he is, as he assumes that all BBQ must be propane, as he don’t acknowledge that there are different types out there. I just think that Kory Read is once again ignoring the very obvious, as it don’t fit his narrative!

I have told Kory & Allison Read so many times that the BBQ my sister has is the Electric type!! It actually plugs in and do not use propane. There are a few here like that and I even got one now myself!

Does anyone really think I am dumb enough to allow my own sister to move in and use a propane BBQ when other tenants could not use them?

Does Kory Read really expect people to believe that just because someone has a BBQ on their balcony here, that he went out of his way to snitch pictures of and share online, that they are ALL propane?

Do Kory Read know if they were propane, does he have evidence they are being used? All he did was take pictures of people’s balconies and ASSUME they are all propane, as you don’t see any tanks, do you? Nor do you see any of them being used.

Once again speculations by Kory & Allison Read that they want people to accept as the truth.

When I stated Kory & Allison Read were the only ones with a BBQ, it was true, as they were the only ones using a propane BBQ.

Maybe I should have been more specific in my statements and treat all the tenants like children, and talk as if they didn’t have a clue about the many different shapes, makes, and sizes of BBQ’s. I thought the specifics I spoke of on PROPANE BBQ’s would be enough. I guess I should have added propane in front of BBQ all the time.

This website is in my name, as Kory & Allison Read took it to use for this site as a deliberate act. Since this site was first posted online in April 2019, the content has changed a few times, even moved hosting companies and domain providers. Each time complaints got it knocked down a bit, it showed up somewhere else with new content. Such determination. Why is that I wonder?

When last checked Newfoundland still had the internet and people could still search up individuals by names and their history. Just in case the racist Stella Reddy and her enabling husband think they can hide from
the internet, their racist and anti-black behavior and these websites.

I copied the above from and yes, Kory Read is correct, there is internet in Newfoundland but one big difference, I have no fear of living there, not even with Kory & Allison Read’s Smear Campaign online, as I know the speculations on my life as written on these sites, is not accepted there. I did nothing wrong.

Instead they are forced to move due to their own actions and inability to recognize their own faults and misdeeds.

Another quote above showing Kory Read’s inability to accept responsibility for anything he does. Talk about projection!

It is Kory & Allison Read actions that is forcing us to move, for the very obvious smearing websites online. Not only is the content made up of lies, rumours, exaggeration, and total speculations over every aspect of my life that has severe effects on my mental health, their instigating content puts a real target on my back. With these very deliberate actions, they are making it unsafe for me to stay. Yes, it is Kory & Allison Read’s fault I don’t feel safe to stay living here and have my husband continue working here.

What does Kory & Allison Read really think these continual accusations and false allegations does to the psyche of the person being attacked in such a way as they are doing, and have done, over such a long period of time?

Kory Read shares pictures, addresses, and telephone numbers, even a map, showing where I live.

Now who in their right minds would continue to live under such a threat that they have created for us?

How is it that Kory Read does not see that these hateful websites of his is what is driving us to move? Does he really think we would want to have any “ BIG OLD RETIREMENT PARTY” at any point with such hateful websites online that they created?

It is enough that their Adult Bullying and Smear Campaigns contributed to my mental breakdown 2 yrs ago, and I had to quit, and it still continues to affect my mental health.

Kory & Allison Read are delusional to think their actions are not at fault. It is obvious when you read just some of their written content on that site their intent is to hurt me, mentally and physically. It is the purpose of a Smear Campaign after all!

Kory & Allison Read made the choice to post such content online bashing me and anyone to do with me, yet now that it is being shown that these actions contributed to my mental health problems, have created a real serious threat to my physical safety enough to drive me away from our home and his job, they are trying to claim I am a fake and faking my issues. “Stella Reddy is a fake” and “And the pattern of her lying only continues with her conveniently fabricate PTSD“. Any excuse to get out of being responsible for their actions! Is Kory Read or Allison Read a doctor?

And she is beginning held accountable for her actions and having to answers for her behavior.

I have no idea why Kory Read wrote this here. If I had done anything wrong, even illegal, there would be some evidence of it and it would have come out by now. It has been almost 4 yrs here and I worked in the industry for 18 yrs. Besides, if there is anything I should be accountable for in any of my actions, it would have come out in their Human Rights complaints. Instead, Kory & Allison Read wasted 19 months of my mental health, and every ones time, for nothing, as they ignored the teleconference and didn’t call in so the applications were dismissed as abandoned. Why do that if they were so sure of what they accuse me of?

So what is it again I need to be held accountable for? I did nothing wrong, no matter Kory Read speculates in his word salad content on these sites. I know it and so do they.

All you need to do is meet me to know that Kory & Allison Read are lying. You can’t judge someone based on the words of another, no matter how strong their opinions.

All the racism allegations are a fabrication, made up from Kory Read’s nasty mind when they were being forced to allow entry to the apartment when they didn’t want to do so!! You can see and hear Kory Read’s own words to that effect! They were very persistent that NO ONE gets into the apartment alone, no matter the reason. It was these words at the LTB in Sept 2016 that caused their eviction.

Kory Read brought all this on themselves with the words below that they spoke. It was these actions of refusing access that broke the rules of apartment living and they were made to move out.

These lies were elaborated upon since Kory & Allison Read were taken to the Landlord and Tenant Board for the refusing of access. They had a whole year to make up stories to try and throw the spotlight onto me instead of their own actions. Ever since then, their stories keep changing, and they keep adding even more accusations! Talk about obvious!

Kory & Allison Read made complaints about me to every agency they could and each time they were shot down. What does that tell you?

Now, as they lost all their legal actions against me, they decided to go the public route and create and post these websites online bashing my character, and recently going after other family, and even some random stranger online who liked and commented on this site. What makes them think they actually have any influence over the general public when they had no influence over the legal actions they were part of? Did they not LOSE them all?

The 3 pages to this post I shared above is some rant by Kory Read. So many speculations there, like :

Let us note that NO ONE is sitting in Stella Reddy’s soon to be vacant apartment, holding a gun to her head, making her type this racist material and putting it online. 

Let us note that NO ONE is sitting in Stella Reddy’s soon to be vacant apartment, holding a gun to her head making her link a White Pride raiocst’s website to her own blog.

And NO ONE is sitting in Stella Reddy’s soon to be vacant apartment, holding a gun to her head making her look for “support” and advice from a extremely proud White Pride couple to post on her own blog.

Stella Reddy does this of her OWN free will and desire to try and gain followers on her blog and social media.

Now lets put this in perspective and switch it around here and show the real truth of all this. 

Kory Read posted on November 2, 2017 where they first Smear myself and the property owners with their allegations. Kory & Allison Read started this situation with their refusal of access, and they continued it ever since first in the building with other tenants and then online. I wouldn’t need to be looking for support over the Adult Bullying and Smear Campaigns against me if Kory & Allison Read didn’t start it in the first place!! What is wrong with support, no matter where it comes from, if it helps you? What, I am not allowed to seek support for this very terrible thing I experienced because Kory Read has a problem with it? 

My website showed up here March 12, 2020 where I tell the truth and show the evidence, from the beginning that do not include the mess Kory Read has turned it into now. As you can make and post websites, so can I. As you put whatever you want on your sites, so can I. Kory Read is such a hypocrite and these actions point it out so clearly! 

Let us note that NO ONE is sitting in Kory Read’s soon to be vacant apartment, holding a gun to his head, making him type this smearing material and putting it online.

Let us note that NO ONE is sitting in Kory Read’s soon to be vacant apartment, holding a gun to his head, making him take my words from my website to use on his own blog.

And NO ONE is sitting in Kory Read’s soon to be vacant apartment, holding a gun to his head making him look for “support” and advice from total strangers for his many lies about Stella Reddy by posting such content online in VARIOUS websites.

Kory Read does this of his OWN free will and desire to try and gain followers on his blog and social media. Kory Read does this of his OWN free will in his attempts to news jack with the current news for more exposure. as shown by Kory Read’s own words. “And this folks is what systematic racism looks like!” as he has written on the last page of

Quid Pro Quo, as they say. This is just more examples of Kory & Allison Read hypocrisy! Do as I say, not as I do!! 

Are Kory & Allison Read now going to go after, judge, and tear down, anyone who likes and comments on my site, even random strangers? Such venom against total strangers on this site. I would really like to know who make Kory & Allison Read judge, jury, and executioners, of anyone. They write their content as if only their opinions matter and their versions are the truth. It is only an opinion.

Kory Read is such a mind-reader, as he knows exactly what others are doing in their lives hey? He should go on the road and make some money with that one! Kory Read claims here that we “can not afford to pay the rent to live there anymore“. What makes him think we paid rent, anywhere, in all our years of working in apartment buildings?

Don’t Kory Read know that part of the benefits we got in this job did include an apartment, RENT FREE? Even utilities were paid for! We even got FREE cable!! Sure, the actual funds we received wasn’t equal to other jobs, but when you factor in free rent, utilities if not included in the rents of the building, and even free cable, we actually do really well! I never complained, why would I with all the benefits I had in my career? We even got health benefits!! I lived where I worked, how much easier can you get than that? I am not complaining over salaries I got, not even now. We always had what we needed and got to go places and do things.

The grey Nissan that Kory Read complains about I had in one of the 2 parking spots I had here, also free, I bought brand new and paid off! The other car I had was a gift from family when they left the province. I miss driving, but due to the Cervical Stenosis I can’t drive much anymore. The neck turns are terrible after a while. As I said before, Kory & Allison Read have no clue about my life. How could they? They are strangers to me.

“Either way it appears that the racist Stella Reddy and her enabling husband are on the move due to something the owners have done. And they are pissed off about it. Threatening to now get the Ontario Health And Safety after them!”

This sentence above highlights Kory & Allison Read’s speculations, trying to make it sound they know what is going on.

Yes, I called Ontario Health and Safety, and filed a complaint, on Kory & Allison Read! This is so an investigation can be done about the Adult Bullying and obvious Smear Campaign online instigated by them against me and other family members, even the owners! Even other tenants living here could be affected by the target Kory & Allison placed on me and the property. I had a nice chat, was told what could be done, and it will be done. Even my sister can file a complaint, as she is also named on these sites.

In the meantime, my hubby is still working here, I am still living here. I am making plans for our move, and I am starting to get excited about it all. My nerves are bad, I cry all the time, jump at the littlest thing, but I am excited about my future and so looking forward to getting peace of mind at home on the Rock!

Narcissists Always Play The Victim

July 14, 2020

This Article below was the one that made the “light bulb” moment for me and what I was going through. It was given to me by someone in one of the groups I did last year to help with anxiety and social situations. By this point I was so scared of being out in public that I would throw up even with the thought of leaving my apt. Not only was I afraid of verbal attacks, I was also at this point afraid of physical attacks from the smearing websites online. That fear is not easy to deal with but this article did help quite a bit.

It took reading it a few times, but I saw the actions of my Bullies, Kory & Allison Read, in this article and I thought I would share it so you can see it too.  

Narcissists Write The Story And They Always Play The Victim

People with narcissistic tendencies also have destructive social tendencies that impact everyone around them. If you have these types of people around you, conflict will always follow them and will always impact, you.

Narcissists are some of the most toxic people around and they always play the victim and manipulate everyone around them.

The real world just doesn’t exist for them as reality means facing the truth and that is something they simply can’t do.

To cope with life, they delude themselves that their own reality is the real one and real life as we know it doesn’t exist.

Should the ‘real reality’ be forced upon them the wild stories they come out with to try and manipulate and compensate can be at best extreme.

First the lies:

Healthy, normal mindful people deal with life as it unfolds and face what life challenges them with and they take responsibility for their actions.

Narcissists are incapable of doing this. They will blame everyone one else for what is wrong in life, it is never their fault.

Narcissists have this deep need to be right about everything, and this is where the wild stories and lies come into play. They single out people who they know will listen and believe what they say and accept ‘their version of the truth’ and they will use their loyalty to feed their lies.

As they are the author of the story, they cast themselves as the good person, the one who fights for everyone, when the reality is they are the ones causing the wrongdoing and inflicting pain on their victims. 

Then comes projection:

Narcissists always use projection, its how they manipulate situations. A great example of this is they will tell you someone has been spreading lies about them, when you hear that, know that for sure it’s the narcissists who have done this not the person they have claimed is doing so.

They will claim a loved one has been cheating on them, nope not the case. What has happened is the narcissist has cheated but is lying by saying the loved one has.

They project so that they can plant the first seeds of doubts and lies. They love playing the wronged loved one and you will often hear them say “Look what they have done to me, all I did was love them”.

When dealing with a narcissist it is wise to reverse what they tell you back onto them, that way you will be getting some semblance of truth.

Building the story is next:

The narcissist always will feed you bits of their story at their own pace and a time of their choosing. It is almost like watching a movie unfold before you and you won’t get to see the whole story until the last few minutes, they do this for dramatic effect and to gain your sympathy.

They are bullies, it’s as simple as that! They seek out victims that can be manipulated and bullied into what they want. Should a victim fight back them they step up their game plan and they are very dangerous people.

The story will then be that the victim bullied the narcissist, made their life a living hell, they will deny any aggressive behavior, they will often say the victim is being too sensitive, telling lies and are attention seeking, does any of this sound familiar?

Character assassination the end is in sight:

Should the lies and projection fail and in effect the victim at this stage has beaten the narcissist, then the narcissist will up their game plan.

The victim is no longer under the narcissist’s control and they hate that, so they will commence their smear campaign, they often use slander, triangulation and character assassination.

 It is at this time that the wildest of stories are told, family and friends can receive emails, text messages from the narcissist giving intimate details about you, some have even been known to post online or send to friends and relatives intimate pictures, photoshop their victims image onto porn sites and movies, thankfully the law has tightened up with regards to this and prosecutions but its too late the damage has been done.

The patterns:
All narcissists act this way, it’s a case of same way, different story. Once you’ve encountered a narcissist and survived you can tell one very easily, but if you should get taken in again, don’t blame yourself they are masters of their craft.

Narcissist can and do slip through the barriers, if that happens rebuild your barriers, set new boundaries and move on with your head held high, you have done nothing wrong.

I am honored to know many survivors of these toxic people, some have recovered and like myself work on helping survivors, others are still working on their recovery.  

Just know there are more of us out here than you think, look for us, we will be the ones shining the beacon of light, showing you the way to hope and recovery.

Defeating the Narcissist

So if conventional wisdom is not serving us or society well, what should we be doing to defeat narcissists? First of all we need to abandon the notion that there is a “right” thing to do. There isn’t one – only some solutions that are less bad than others. And of these, doing nothing can be the worst of all options. Quite what represents the optimal solution in your instance will depend on a wide array of factors, some known, others perhaps unclear:

  • You need to be in a position of relative safety – both physical and emotional safety – before you should do anything proactive.
  • You should act from positions of power and legitimacy – financial, legal, psychological and moral.
  • You need to ensure that other potential victims and people at risk are also protected. This is especially the case when you have kids jointly in the mix. Very often doing something proactively to defeat the narcissist may cause a short term spike in discomfort (and possibly danger) to children, but to the benefit of their longer term safety and security. This has to be balanced with the risk of doing nothing – that enables a narcissist to manipulate, control and abuse their own children, especially as weapons with which they attack the normal loving parent, ad infinitum.
  • It will help enormously if you can recruit friends to your cause – not least because the sad reality is that there are many toxic types out there, and narcs of a feather often flock together. By taking on a narc, and shining a light on their shady shit, you are also shining a light on the clique – and that can be very threatening to the flying monkeys and enablers. It is for this reason that the smear campaign picks up pace so quickly. Be prepared to take on more than just your narc.

Strategies to defeat Narcs

So depending on your specific situation, the options available to you will include some blend of the following:

  1. Expose them. Combat their lies with your truth. Use channels that are available and work – one-on-one conversations, letters/email/texts, posts to social media. Be prepared to hold yourself fully accountable with people (and in writing), thereby challenging the lies told by the narc and that they cannot substantiate. Don’t make allegations that you may not be able to substantiate or that they could sue you for – but you are allowed to hold an opinion, ask questions, present facts and allow other people to make judgements. Be bold, be loud.
  2. Use legal tools to hold them to account. Whilst many jurisdictions do not understand NPD at all, most do understand the individual forms of abuse that make up narcissistic abuse. Don’t try to use the catch-all “narcissistic abuse” moniker though – it will backfire. Go after every form of abuse that you can provide evidence for and that will appear sufficiently weighty (abuse such as gaslighting is very damaging indeed, but whilst it is major to you it can appear petty to law enforcement and the legal system who just don’t get it).
  3. Fight fire with fire. Become an Empath Supernova for a while. Counter their abuse with a psychological campaign that returns their “kindness”. Understand that it is tricky to defeat a narc when restrained by your high morals, and that in order to battle a just and needed war, you might have to take your gloves off and fight dirty for a while. Learn their psychological tactics that they employ to mindfuck you – and then use them back. As they smear you with lies, counter their campaign with a louder one of truth. Shine a light into their dark places and force them out of the shadows. Gaslight, bait-and-trap, and word salad them back. Humiliate and embarrass them. Force them to make errors and reveal the monster within.
  4. Recruit allies. Your friends and family may be the first port of call, but also consider joining forces with other victims (eg whom you’ve met online) and that might join you in your battle – especially on social media. Spar off each other to create some noise and raise the profile of NPD.
  5. Don’t underestimate you strength. You’ve been to hell and back – and survived. The old adage, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, has never been truer than in your case now.
  6. Don’t overestimate the narcopath’s strengths. They put on a good show – Dr Jekyll reigning supreme, manipulating like hell, lying like crazy (and seemingly getting away with it). But their real self, the authentic Mr Hyde, is the polar opposite – deeply self-loathing, awash with insecurities, riddled with vulnerabilities, jealous of so much, terrified of the truth about themselves. Use all of these to your advantage. Get them to compromise by managing them by consequence – be badass and don’t take the pressure off until you have got what you deserve as fair.
  7. Understand the concept of the balance of evil. Sometimes in life, we have to do something bad in order to prevent something worse. Cutting off someone’s leg is bad. It might be a necessity if that leg has gangrene and is going to kill it’s owner. And so it is with Narcissistic Abuse. Sometimes you have to take drastic action is order to save the day. Don’t be deterred from rising to the occasion.

 Inner Healing

It should also be noted the impact of holding abusers to account on the victims. We are hard-programmed to defeat threats to our sanity and lives. We need to resolve trauma in order to mitigate Complex-PTSD, and in turn avoid life-threatening auto-immune diseases later on in life. We are programmed to belief and champion a system of justice (that in turn has systems of punishment, correction and dissuasion). These are not well-served by policies of forget and forgive. Moreover, you do no service to others by running away from problems. You do act as an exemplary role model in tackling evil head-on and holdings perpetrators of abuse to account.